victim potential
I keep an eye on 2 of his profiles. Know thine enemy…
Someone (female) left a comment on his profile. It was an animated bear with a tear rolling down it’s face and writing “Sorry” on a piece of paper.
I clicked over to her profile and yep - ” Are you ready for the weekend!!??” a comment left by him a few days ago.
Turned my stomach because I know what he’s doing.
He chooses women by weaknesses he can easily exploit. Not saying this to be mean - but it looks like he’s a couple steps higher (on the physical attractiveness scale) than the men she probably/usually dates. She’s thinking how lucky she is to land such a great catch. See how this makes her great victim potential.
My victim potential was a combination of things… the cattle lease and probation alone had awesome threat value.
I hope, for her sake, more importantly for her safety, that she gets away from him faster than I did.

Sounds like a real predator.
He is.
All that’s left to be said about him - what comes around, goes around.

Wow. I’m dealing with the same sort of problem right now.. not physically but mentally, emotionally. I don’t know which end is up. All I know is there’s got to be someone better, nicer, more patient. I’m ending it and soon, and hopefully I can get out of the current bind I’m in unscathed.
I’m very grateful you got away from yours. I hope all is well.